Really im in the closet and yet im not see my mom found out(my dad knows and he told me love who i want to SO HEART YOU DAD) but she ignores it and goes on like it never happened
that is why its complicated myfriends all know because half of my group is gay love them to death
but i dont get why people treat us and others so diffrent
they treat us diffrent because of the way we act, dress, or even who we love
i dont get that....
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I don't really get it, either. If they lived a day in our shoes, they would change their opinion pretty quick. They say that it's a choice and that's an excuse to bully us, but no one can prove that. Besides, I never remember deciding to like girls or that I was one on the side. Nope. I was...just...always this way.
Hmm, I live with my grandma (not for long hopefully!) and I came out to her and she totally pretends like it never happened too. She even still tries to hook me up with guys which is really annoying. And I guess I don't really act like a "lesbian" so a lot of the guys at my work flirt with me because they don't belive that I am, even when I tell them. T_T It's just a stereotype, why do I have to act like a crazed woman pervert to be concidered a lesbian in their eyes? It's not my fault I'm shy. >_>
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Heh... Yeah, I could see how that stuff would go old...after the first time.
Myself, I have to deal with people thinking I'm gay because I tend to act feminine. I've always have been asked out by guys before, believe it or not. They thought I was gay and they never believe me when I tell them I'm not into guys. I suppose I am gay in a certain sense, since I'm becoming a girl and I like other girls, but... It's still not in the way they think.
It's been getting on my nerves, especially lately. So I guess I can relate.
well, kudos to all of you. for going with what your heart wants.
theres just always going to be ignorance in the world. when i was dating a girl, i was telling her about how one of my friends was a lesbian and that just got her upset, saying that its immoral and wrong and 'those types' of people will burn in hell. gotta love the straight laced christian groups.
and...im beginning to see that im one of the few straight guys that read the comic.
I wonder... Are you the only guy who reads it? At least, you're the only one who joined the forum, right? It's true I'm currently male, but you know. I doubt I count as a "guy"--nor do I want to, no offense.
i know theres other guys that read the comic but so far, i think im the only guy that joined the forum. hopefully that'll change.
and no worries bout not really countin yourself as a guy, if i could, i wouldnt either, but my wang and attraction to the female body makes it slightly hard to not be counted. atleast im not a caveman type guy.
You better watch yourself. You don't want to call me a guy...ever. It's one of my few sensitive points that I actually can be angered by. Being called a guy really pisses me off. I'm giving you a warning this time, even though you should have known better.
Edit: I'm sorry. Your post made me angry and a bit hurt. I didn't mean a lot of that. I was being honest when I said it's a tender point. You must understand that I get reminded enough about this, without you throwing it in my face like that.
You better watch yourself. You don't want to call me a guy...ever. It's one of my few sensitive points that I actually can be angered by. Being called a guy really pisses me off. I'm giving you a warning this time, even though you should have known better.
Edit: I'm sorry. Your post made me angry and a bit hurt. I didn't mean a lot of that. I was being honest when I said it's a tender point. You must understand that I get reminded enough about this, without you throwing it in my face like that.
-- Edited by Nobody at 02:56, 2007-06-08
sorry, i didnt mean it like that, i only mentioned that because you refered to it in your post.
maybe, but i didnt mean it like that. i didnt know your gender before anything, and you mentioned yourself as a male so...i was just going with what information i had.
Hmmm .... About coming out of the closet. I did that about 3 years ago I was 16 years old. I was riding in the car with my mom we were at a stop light and I told her I was a lesbian. It wasn't hard for me because I knew my mom. She turn to me and said "as long as your happy than I'll will support you". My little brother took it hard at first but after three years he's like always going around making jokes about it so it doesn't bother him anymore. My older brother was like whatever. So it cool. Man I don't know what I would have done if my family was not beside me supporting me through everything. I feel bad for people who have a secret like that something that can eat away at you.
my mom is a bible hugger in fact she is on the church staff..... that is why it is hard IM MEAN REALLY HARD!!!!!!!! yeah its okay i move out in two years or i might just go live with my dad
i think wat sucks the most is that i really love my mom
i guess it would be easier if i hated her but i dont...
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It's great that u love mom so much but there will always be something not right about the relationship if u hide it for her. I bet she great person devoting her time to church but people are blind and don't know anything about people that are gay. It's not choose it just the way we are born. I don't know your situation but If it was me I would find the right time in my life when I'm more stable and I would sit her down and tell her that I loved her and that I want to talk about something that is important to me and hopefully over time be accepted for it. I would just give her time inform her about what it is that made me want to confess: Loving someone is not leaving them in the dark about something so important. Just wanted to write that down.
I've always really apreciated forums as being a great place for discussions like these - it's good to have a place to at least talk about and associate with people who all seem to have at least similar experiences ^-^
as far as I know, my direct family know I'm gay (my mother and my sister, that is). but my sister went behind my back after she read my myspace and told my mother without talking to me first. they got concerned and after sending me to 2 therapists and not "letting" me go to Homecoming in a suit, the whole thing just kinda blew over and we don't really talk about it anymore. it should probably be brought up again someday....I don't even know if anyone outside of my mother and sister really know that I'm gay.
**I say "let" me go because I went in a dress, and changed in the bathrooms so I could wear the suit and still not make my mother mad, lol
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Raine i knew you were gay when you were in middle school. I walked up and was like hi little redhead girl how are you doing today? and you were like "oh nothing just wearing a button up flanel that i found in the boy section at target and playing with my ultra boyish dark blue bike." and i said "well thats kind of strange shouldn't your bike be pink?" and you were like "no, not at all i'm a total lessie." then we played backgammon and i lost and had to pay you 14 bucks.
-- Edited by Natalie at 17:12, 2007-06-11
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It gets hard, The memory's faded. It's likely they're just jealous and jaded. Well maybe I don't want to take advice from fools. I'll just figure everything is cool, Until I hear it from you.
GUESS WAT i have to go to therpy yep i have to go and all they tell me this is unclean and that crap like that WHAT FUN NOT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! THIS SUCKS
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*rorl* oh you remember that? no way!! XD that's awesome. I still have that shirt by the way...
that sucks, darkside; when I was sent back to therapy - but this time for being gay and apparently depressed - I was so fed up I refused to even speak to the guy. he sent me out to the waiting room while they talked..she was furious, though. totally sucked..the second guy ended up telling her that I was better than she'd thought and she was worse off than she thought and should really seek help and get friends outside of family. :\
let's hope you'll be so...fortunate, lol
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Hm... In school most people knows I'm gay, but my family doesn't know it. When I told my grandmother that I wasn't a christian anymore she started to talk about heaven and God all the time, so I don't really knows that my family and relatives would do if I told them I was gay. That scares me, so i won't tell then until I move out or something ._.
Hm... In school most people knows I'm gay, but my family doesn't know it. When I told my grandmother that I wasn't a christian anymore she started to talk about heaven and God all the time, so I don't really knows that my family and relatives would do if I told them I was gay. That scares me, so i won't tell then until I move out or something ._.
That's a great idea. If most of the school knows, there is little chance it will get back to your parents. It's not like some religious kid who goes to your school will find out, tell his mom, and have her tell your's fearing for your "mortal soul".
My mom knew how a tech crew event went down because person the who I work with's mom told mine at work. Don't think something that is this big (and in the mind of the religious, it is big) won't get back to you or them. You should tell them some time, or risk them finding out and you not being there to explain yourself.
I wasn't there to explain when they found out that I'm no christian, my Teacher told them when I was not there :3 I don't think most kids in school tell that stuff to their parents ._. and IF they do, their parents don't know mine :3
Really im in the closet and yet im not see my mom found out(my dad knows and he told me love who i want to SO HEART YOU DAD) but she ignores it and goes on like it never happened
that is why its complicated myfriends all know because half of my group is gay love them to death
but i dont get why people treat us and others so diffrent
they treat us diffrent because of the way we act, dress, or even who we love
i dont get that....
its not that they treat us different its just that they are human and humans are scared of what is different but they must realise that we are human too and we have the right to love whomever the **** we want we have the right to dress and look the way we want they treat us different because they are scared of what they think we will do its not like were converting anyone were just people trying to live our own lives
hmm coming out of the closet is great and all but if people know **** gets tough REAL tough but that doesnt matter i just enjoy pissing off crazy homophobes by making out with my girlfriend right in front of church :3 than theyre always like "your to young to be a lesbian" thats the funniest line they say :3 (wow wall of text D:)
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yeah, the first person i dated was a girl and... i told my oldest sister i was dating a girl and she said: "what?! but you didn't even date a guy before! i think you're going too fast, you should date a guy first!". then i was like: "but...i don't like her becouse she's a girl, i like her because it's...her".
anyway...after that my family decovered and they were against our relashionship, in the end i broke up with her and now we are friends(at least^^).
now my family acts like nothing happened (i think it's good...and noway i'm telling them again, maybe i'll tell them when i become independent).
Damn, while this is one of my Fave Forums to come to, this is why I don't see if School has it blocked or not. Dx I swear, I go on here, they'll block it, and someone'll call my parents or some crazy shiz. (I Have NOOOTHIIING to do in CG class, so I go onto teh intarwebs. But I have to think where I go 'cause, while my parents may not care about this, the school is somewhat stupid)
As for, the, like, last three posts, <3
I agree Nobody, how CAN you be too yhoung to be lesbian? What, just cause we can't have babies at a young age makes us to young to be lesbian? x3
As for The DoG... x3 I don't think I'm ever going to date a guy, but I haven't dated anyone yet, so Iunno. xD But as for reason, 1: Guys at my school suck. Not all of them, but seems like I attract idiots. D> And 2: Er... not exsaxctly interested.
