It was just this year that I finally found that I am Bi, and I still haven't told my family/ most of my friends.Well anyways, I have had this crush on my bestfriend Katy for a long time and just recently told her a few weeks ago, she admited to liking me as well, seems great right? Nope, mainly because she's already dating and is in love her girlfriend..Then I am dating a guy named David and I really like him a lot, but in the back of my mind I think I'm falling for my other bestfriend Bre.
I haven't told her yet and I'm sort of afraid to do so, since I'm not sure she feels the same..Then there's another guy that I think I am falling in love with ever since last year and he says he likes me, but of course he's also dating a good friend of mine. My life is a confusing mess and I'm tired of all this. -sigh-
~ Oh and if you could make any sense of the above, then congrats you are a genius.
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I understand because my friend went through the same thing. You might as well tell your parents, the quicker you tell them the quicker you can get over with the reaction. I can't tell what your parents will say and do since every person have their own ways of dealing with things.
Tell your friend Bre your falling for her if you believe she likes girls, and your friendship won't get compromised if you tell. The thing I told my friend when she was going to tell her friend was "Make a list of all the things you will lose and a list next to it of what you'll gain. If the gain is larger by a good amount then you might as well go for it."
Also don't jump to conclusions that you like somebody if you feel something for them. Feelings can be confusing and you might mistake them for something else.
Giving time can answer a lot of things but I suppose only you know when time is right. Do what you believe is the right way to go about things. Bla bla bla. Some more wise stuff. Jedi hand wave.
Love the jedi wave- and the rest is really great and helpful.. -still hesitant to tell my mom cause she doesn't believe in bi's, it's either your gay and disapproved of or straight and everything's great and dandy. -
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fantazmic news, I told myfriend Bre I was Bi and when I said that I really liked a certian girl, she said that it had better have been her. I was so happy that she isn't weirded out and still is best friends with me. Pus David and I broke up, so now I feel a weight is liftedfrom my chest. - happy sigh- yay! Mainly cause I told my brother about me-self and he's alright with it, but my parents... still not enough courage but lately I've been wondering if I even want to tel them right now. Cause a friendof mine madea good point that if I do tell them, that (if they take it well and understand) They might start acting like I shouldn't be hanging out with either boys or girls! So I'm still wondering if I want to tell them right now...
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