*Raises eyebrows* You sound really hyper, you know that?

As for advice: Honestly, I can't give you the advice you probably want. There's not really a step-by-step guide on how to get your family to accept your situation; if there was, I would have come out to my parents by now.

What I can do is offer you some tips.

First, about your mother. The first thing you need to realize is your mother has a point.

Wait, don't start flaming me yet; finish listening first, please.

Many teenagers do go through phases where they think that they are gay, or transgendered, or somehow inside the wrong body or otherwise different from the social norm. Now, reading the above post, I would say that this doesn't apply to you. However, your mother has no way of verifying this. As far as she knows, you are simply confused.

You shouldn't avoid the topic aroud your mother. Talk about the crushes you have on girls, casually mention that you kissed a girl last Tuesday. However, do not rub her face in it. Don't start going on about how you want Laura's body so bad. Just mention it as if it were a fact of life, like the fact that you like the colour purple.

As for your friends? The same advice applies. Don't rub their faces in it. If your friends start talking about the boys they like, then feel free to mention that you like Amanda; however, don't openly ogle Jessica during English.

I would like to add Haiiiiiiiii

but other than that cygan makes good points

I'd say you are what you feel you are
don't doubt what you feel because it's your heart talking

Good point again there, Cygan :)
There isn't really anything more I can add to this, but I strongly suggest to listen to Cygans advice =)

sorry I havent logged on I got way distracted with school and i have a new gf I love oh so much and yeah things are goin better my parents are slowly understanding and all so Im bein me not hiding it or nothing ^.^

well that sounds like everything is good =) .... now that all troubles are over, may we welcome you as a new member? =P

thanks everyone and yes you may welcome me as a new member now lol but yeah me and my girl are so close right now I think I may propose to her even though Im only 16 shes 18 she doesnt care bout age but we are waiting to have sex when Im at the appropriate age and she said she doesnt mind waiting cause then itll be even more special

welcome then =)

... i agree with lady though =/

You're not the only one to lose track of time Nik (may I call you that?) :)
It is good to hear that you and your girlfriend are doing good, but if I may ask; how long have you been together? It may still be too early for proposal and marriage, but I do not know the details, do I? :)

=)

=) patience. it wont hurt to wait, just be happy she loves you enough to wait.

... atacking people is illegal regardless of age =O so i dont think that would be a good thing =P

uhh gappie I was speakin sex wise

Hehehe

Just as planned, eh, Twilight?

>> you are all nuts lol my girl wants to take me out on a date yay!! -//.//- oh i should wear that new button up shirt and vest I just got

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nooo you cant send me links with random buttons ill waste 3 hours on it =O

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Three hours is short compared to most of my tvtropes fixations... lucky.

And um, I'm definitely harmless. Mostly. Kinda. Depends on if you want to be harmed, really~

 

Cyg did you dodge that bullet of mine? :3

o-o did we turn my post into a chat area now lol ya'll didnt even say anything bout the clothes I was gonna wear so cruel lol

lmao your confusing me really bad!!

okie dokie anyways my dad said its fine he doesnt care if Im a lesbian he tried to hook me up with different girls but its embarrassing to have your dad help I told him I have a gf and he wants to meet her oh boy

Well you're lucky with such a supportive father, Nik. The waiting is still a good thing though , does show how much she cares, and it DOES make it more special :)

...okay, I'm just confusing myself again, so I'll cut the post short^^

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-- Edited by Susanah on Friday 17th of December 2010 08:32:25 AM

gah!! Im way nervous and so is she! even though shes older than me XD

Well you both really wan to be together, right? Then one day or another you would have to let the parents meet your special one and if your father is as supportive as you say, then I'm sure he wouldn't cause anything bad to happen in any way. Parents may seem scary, but mostly they just want what's good for you, and trust you to make good choises =)

Yep, questionsis most definitely a scary thing :/

Lmao I forgot about you guys Im sorry!!!! no not yet shes actually gettin ready to move here @.@ oh man this is gona be fun cause I wanna move in with her too and all

so all is well? =D