OKAY YOU DO NOT IN ANY WAY HAVE TO COMMENT THIS I AM JUST REALLY PISSED
OKAY I HATE THE WAY PEOPLE STARE AT ME LIKE IM NOT HUMAN....i am i have feelings just liek everyone else......i hate that i cant be myself with some people i have to pretend...i hate it when everyone stare at my girl friend and me......i hate that i cant open up to anyone because im scared to death about what they will think........but what i hate most of all is what you did to me because of that i wont even let my girlfriend touch me for very long.....
-- Edited by darkside at 23:01, 2008-01-29
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i will be me and you be you and then maybe we will have hope for each other
it's alright just get out what you need to. I'll be around if you need to talk
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Anger, Jealousy, Loneliness, these are the emotions that consume ones heart and destroy ones soul, my heart cannot soar for it is eternally wingless...
*hug* Sorry. The world is really lacking in empathy isn't it? But in the end you gotta do what makes you happy and stop worrying about what all the naysayers and morons say. The fact you're able to be show your love for each other in public is comendable.
(...and i've stared once or twice when I see a lesbian couple but that's just cause I'm jealous xDD;;)
Oh lauren you know people are just scared of something they cant explain and about the end i know why you wont and one day it will heal the wound that he made and i can wait for you love you
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(the first time me and Lauren met)
L: so whats your name
S: spencer
L:........
S:you can laugh its okay
Hey... If it's what I think happened, you can talk to me all you need to. I probably understand well, if it is. I'm sorry that you have to go through all of these things, and I know how hard it is for one to accept being touched again by a lover or friend for a long time. It's taken me seven years since, and... well, I still flinch at every touch. Better than it used to be, at least, so there's hope on that end. ^^;
Okay, Amy needs to stop talking. Now. Now would be good. Okay, how about now? Aww... ****... T_T
My (recent and only) ex-girlfriend and I were afraid for the same reason, so I'm glad you two were braver than us by showing your love. It's horrible about the consiquences though, just because you want to show that you're you, that you're not pretending to be someone you're not. I hate how humanity is right now. Most people who don't understand- or don't want to- are afraid of change, as most people are afraid of the unknown. It's... I can't even find the word, to tell the truth, but I hate how there are people out there trying to FORCE their opinion on someone who wants to be themselves.
This is probably why I want to take a class this semester on social inequalities.
((And I have to completely agree with Graves on the staring part. I don't do it to be mean- it 'cause I wish it was me... T-T Still do.))
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No matter how far in or out of the closet you are, you still have a next step.
I understand your quest for social acceptance, I would love to knock some of these guys flat for you . I can't stand people who can't live and let live. my only advice is that you shouldn't care what people you don't even know think. or even better use it to your advantage. If they can't accept you for who you are then they deserve to be offended. You havn't done anything wrong and if someone tells you different just smile knowing you got to them. what I'm trying to say is they want to intimidate you, make you angery, but you can let them or you can refuse to sink to their level. trust me it really pisses these windbags off when you don't listen. I remember a quote I saw once "Love your enemies it really gets them confused"
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Anger, Jealousy, Loneliness, these are the emotions that consume ones heart and destroy ones soul, my heart cannot soar for it is eternally wingless...
Hey every feel the need to yell, scream, cuss, hit, or a shoulder I am here. I will have to agree with Graves on the point of Staring. You have someone and I don't so I am jealous of the fact. My Grandpa taught me a very important thing when I was younger. #1 Does the person's Opinion matter to you? #If it is yes, Why? if it is No, they can go screw themselves. Ex-Marine way of thinking but it does help and I can get balled out by people above me in work and Smile at them the whole time cause there opinion of me or about me doesn't matter. Smiling at someone who is glaring or yelling at you just pisses them off further to it is great . Darkside don't let them get to you. Just take peace in the fact that you have a great friends here that are here for you whenever you need it.
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If you want to talk about anything at anytime just check profile. I might look Offline but I am on just invisible, so day or night drop me a line. Not all who wander are lost- J.R.R. Tolkien Without Chaos there is no Order...YAY Chaos
thanks everyone but um yeah i dont care when people look at us with being curious as much as i hate the stares that make the hair rise on the back of my neck but i dont know it just get really bad when its some of your friends that do some of that crap
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i will be me and you be you and then maybe we will have hope for each other
Anger, Jealousy, Loneliness, these are the emotions that consume ones heart and destroy ones soul, my heart cannot soar for it is eternally wingless...
it's alright just get out what you need to. I'll be around if you need to talk
. Darkside don't let them get to you. Just take peace in the fact that you have a great friends here that are here for you whenever you need it.
