I have the worst luck. lol

Taiki · Taiki Webcomic Artist

I have the worst luck. lol

Major-HXH · Veteran Member

yeah i had this problem. I am not gay but a guy told me that he had a crush on me. That's was a hard time for me because I have no interress in guys and I was feeling that he had gathered all his courage to tell it to me. Well nw we are good friends and he has found a boyfriend.

Susanah · Master Member

...i've never had such problems...people either ignore me, hate me (and does a lot to bother me), or they simply see me as a friend or just annoying...

Twiggy · Newbie

The only problem I've really had is telling all of my girl friends that I liked girls and they get all freaked out or scarred when I hug them or look them in the eye... one of my frends gave me a lap dance and when they found I was disgusted they yelled at me saying I was suppossed to like that and walked off... I live in a very homophobic community >.

Susanah · Master Member

...meh, i've only told 2 friends, my parents, and my sister that i like girls...

Xephyr · Newbie

yea, i get chased by guys all the time. The most annoying thing though is i've gotten into a relationship with a girl, and suddenly every girl i know is cracking on to me >_<

Susanah · Master Member

...meh, i've always been different than the others, acting all different from them...so that led to me being unpopular the last years...people are fine with me now, they mostly ignore me though...so im hoping i get to switch schools next year...

Wandering Mimic · Veteran Member

No one likes me...

No really, I'm apparently not likable in the least, or they're all trying to keep it a really big secret. I'm not sure which characteristic makes me completely unattractive, but I feel like I should pay homage to it, because I spend far too much time trying to keep my ego in check already.

I'll talk to pretty much anyone about anything that has absolutely no significance to daily life (ie: the usefulness of camels in a bank heist), so it's probably not shyness on my part.

I've gotta imagine you're right about the whole talking to guys about video games thing, it definitely makes you more approachable and interesting. That sounds like it came out wrong... I was not implying that you are not approachable or interesting barring an interest in video games.

seriouslybored · Veteran Member

Ohhh man if I had a dollar..........It drives me insane, all I would like to have is a girlfriend but instead I have some of the nicest guys hitting on me and trying to date me. I feel so guilty when I turn down or distance myself from them, like I had led them on or something until it was too late. Thankfully they end up forgiving me and don't become bitter like some guys do.

Wandering Mimic · Veteran Member

I bet you could actually get a dollar out of them.

Out of curiousity. Do they react worse to you telling them that you're gay, or if you just turn them down?

I feel like that if you tell them you're gay, it means they can walk away thinking "All right, it wasn't my fault, I'm still super awesome and sexy", but if you just turn them down they'd feel disgruntled because they are an epic failure and cannot deal with it. I suppose if they're a homophobe you'd still get a bad reaction, but do they ever think you're lying to get rid of them?

And yes, in my head heterosexual men hinge their entire self-image on a single episode of "will you go out with me?". I cannot say I put much faith into my gender.

Doc · Love Freak

people don't tend to ask me out in fact I've never been asked out... by anyone... ever
at least you guys get people *sigh*

Susanah · Master Member

Doc wrote:

people don't tend to ask me out in fact I've never been asked out... by anyone... ever
at least you guys get people *sigh*

...i have never been either...i had a boyfriend when i was 6, though, but that doesn't count...

LadyTwilight · Senior Member

To chime in here, I realized something the other day when I *gaspleftthehouse* was at a mostly deserted Barnes & Noble café: I think I have a slightly easier time talking to guys...because I don't have to worry about liking them. It struck me as strange, but I think it makes a little sense.

As for being liked/asked out, I don't really...go anywhere or meet anyone, much less anyone in such a position as to do so. There was someone back in HS that liked me, but I think that's it?

seriouslybored · Veteran Member

Wandering Mimic wrote:

I bet you could actually get a dollar out of them.

Out of curiousity. Do they react worse to you telling them that you're gay, or if you just turn them down?

I feel like that if you tell them you're gay, it means they can walk away thinking "All right, it wasn't my fault, I'm still super awesome and sexy", but if you just turn them down they'd feel disgruntled because they are an epic failure and cannot deal with it. I suppose if they're a homophobe you'd still get a bad reaction, but do they ever think you're lying to get rid of them?

And yes, in my head heterosexual men hinge their entire self-image on a single episode of "will you go out with me?". I cannot say I put much faith into my gender.

It depends on the guy. I've come out to some of them, while the others that I carefully distance myself from end up finding someone else to be interested in or just kinda get over it. (they often end up falling for my friends and work their way through having a crush on each of them o.0)